TRUSTING TRUST

If you are looking for trust, where is it that you look?
 Do you trust a person, the internet, an app, or a book?
 Trust is about predictability, and believing it is true. 
This might connect with something, you already knew.

GETTING WHAT YOU WANT

When we feel unloved, disrespected, and hurt, we want revenge. This is uncomfortable, so it is something we must try to avenge.  The problem is, that doesn’t get us what we want, or that we seek.  Responding emotionally will never work, so think before you speak.

THE COACH AND THE CRITIC

The inner critic and inner coach inside of our head, both are well intentioned. The one that we choose to listen to the most, determines our mindset, because it changes what we believe and how we think.

OUR SOCIAL BEHAVIOR

“SOCIAL BEHAVIOR MAP” IS USED BASED ON A SITUATION. IN EACH SITUATION, THERE IS AN EMOTIONAL RESPONSE OR “TRIGGER” WHICH CAUSES A CHOICE IN BEHAVIOR. YOU CAN CHOOSE AN “EXPECTED BEHAVIOR” OR AN “UNEXPECTED BEHAVIOR” BASED ON OUR CHOICE, PEOPLE WILL EITHER HAVE HAPPY OR UNHAPPY THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS, WHICH IN TURN EFFECTS HOW THEY TREAT US, WHICH EFFECTS HOW WE FEEL ABOUT OURSELVES.

BLAMING THE BLAMER

People are often way too quick to judge, and not let go of anger, holding a grudge. Ending up hurting people, never knowing, that it is stopping someone from growing.